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Gambling is any betting or wagering, for self
or others, whether for money or not, no matter how slight or insignificant,
where the outcome is uncertain or depends upon chance or "skill".
How
to tell if you or a loved one have a gambling problem:
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Gamblers Anonymous 20 Questions
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| Most compulsive gamblers
will answer yes to at least seven of these questions: |
- Did you ever lose time from work or school due
to gambling?
- Has gambling ever made your home life unhappy?
- Did gambling affect your reputation?
- Have you ever felt remorse after gambling?
- Did you ever gamble to get money with which
to pay debts or otherwise solve financial difficulties?
- Did gambling cause a decrease in your ambition
or efficiency?
- After losing did you feel you must return as
soon as possible and win back your losses?
- After a win did you have a strong urge to return
and win more?
- Did you often gamble until your last dollar
was gone?
- Did you ever borrow to finance your gambling?
- Have you ever sold anything to finance gambling?
- Were you reluctant to use "gambling money"
for normal expenditures?
- Did gambling make you careless of the welfare
of yourself or your family?
- Did you ever gamble longer than you had planned?
- Have you ever gambled to escape worry or trouble?
- Have you ever committed, or considered committing,
an illegal act to finance gambling?
- Did gambling cause you to have difficulty in
sleeping?
- Do arguments, disappointments or frustrations
create within you an urge to gamble?
- Did you ever have an urge to celebrate any good
fortune by a few hours of gambling?
- Have you ever considered self destruction or
suicide as a result of your gambling?
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Are you
Living With A Compulsive Gambler? |
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| The following 20
questions are from Gamblers Anonymous. If you answer "Yes" to
six or more of the following questions, you may be living with a compulsive
gambler: |
- Do you find yourself constantly bothered by
bill collectors?
- Is the person in question often away from home
for long, unexplained periods of time?
- Does this person ever lose time from work due
to gambling?
- Do you feel that this person cannot be trusted
with money?
- Does the person in question faithfully promise
that he or she will stop gambling, plead for another chance, yet gamble
again and again?
- Does this person ever gamble longer than he
or she intended to, till the last dollar is gone?
- Does this person immediately return to gambling
to try to recover losses, or to win more?
- Does this person ever gamble to get money to
solve financial difficulties, or have unrealistic expectations that
gambling will bring the family material comfort and wealth?
- Does this person borrow money to gamble with
or to pay gambling debts?
- Has this person's reputation ever suffered due
to gambling, even to the extent of committing illegal acts to finance
gambling?
- Have you come to the point of hiding money needed
for living expenses, knowing that you and the rest of the family may
go without food and clothing if you do not?
- Do you search this person's clothing or go through
his or her wallet when the opportunity presents itself, or otherwise
check on his or her activities?
- Does the person in question hide his or her
money?
- Have you noticed a personality change in the
gambler as his or her gambling progresses?
- Does the person in question consistently lie
to cover up or deny his or her gambling activities?
- Does this person use guilt induction as a method
of shifting responsibilities for his or her gambling upon you?
- Do you attempt to anticipate this person's moods,
or try to control his or her life?
- Does this person ever suffer from remorse or
depression due to gambling sometimes to the point of self-destruction?
- Has the gambling ever brought you to the point
of threatening to break up the family unit?
- Do you feel that your life together is a nightmare?
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National
Council on Problem Gambling 10 Questions |
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| The National Council
on Problem gambling suggests that if you, or someone you know, answers "Yes"
to any of the following questions, you should consider seeking professional
assistance: |
- You have often gambled longer than you had planned.
- You have often gambled until your last dollar
was gone.
- Thoughts of gambling have caused you to lose
sleep.
- You have used your income or savings to gamble
while letting bills go unpaid.
- You have made repeated, unsuccessful attempts
to stop gambling.
- You have broken the law or considered breaking
the law to finance your gambling.
- You have borrowed money to finance your gambling.
- You have felt depressed or suicidal because
of your gambling losses.
- You have been remorseful after gambling.
- You have gambled to get money to meet your financial
obligations.
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"After a speaking engagement, I am
often asked by a family member, "How do you know if a person
has a gambling problem?". To which I respond, "If you
think a person has a gambling problem - they do.""
Michael Burke
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